Why is it so easy to fall in love with someone? Then after the beautiful dates and romantic escapades you realize that there's something important missing, the man you've been dreaming about, or is he?
Growing up from little girls into women, we've always dreamed about what our perfect man would be ( Mr. Right). He would be tall,handsome, the perfect gentleman. Perferably a college graduate, six figure income, and a family man. Never did we ever consider that we may find this man and he has all of these traits and much more. This man I'm talking about can sometimes be found carrying a little something extra. Something we ladies like to call "baggage ".
The senario: You meet a nice guy, he asks for you're number, a few calls lead to a date and that date leads to another. It turns out he's a real sweetheart, and he's doing everything you like. You're time with him is never interrupted, he leaves kisses on you're forehead as he leaves after long nights. Naughty texts until he can see you again. Wow! This guy is smooth, so smooth he has you feeling like he's the one. The shopping sprees every time he's been away to long, has you telling you're friends that he's a keeper. A few months go by and you decide you want him around permanently. It's now time for "The Talk", you want him to move in. Suddenly you're smooth guy starts to show signs of rejection, a curve ball has been thrown in his game, and it's about to cause him to strike out. But before he strikes out he puts together a plan.
After having "The Talk", you're guy attempts to give you what you wants. So he starts to spend more nights and come around on a day to day basis. In doing this, he will start to slip up on a few things. Remember those uninterrupted dates, it was because he kept his phone on silent. Now he's around so much that he forgets, so constant phone calls start to make you wonder. Noticeably, the calls come more often at night. The sweet kisses turns into wishes, as he slides out of bed early morning trying to go unnoticed. Dates become memories, as you're mate is somewhere else aiming to please. There's another women across town who's being neglected and you're man has to make up to her now. Sitting at home, you wonder where did you go wrong. Thoughts are running across you're mind, you're no longer blinded by his sweetness, now you want the truth; So the hunt begins.
He returns home for the day, exhausted from play and you're just waiting for him to fall asleep. His day must of been nice because his phone was a little too easy to access. You start to search until you find, a number dialed all the time and sorry "Boo" that number don't connect to you. So you decide to call, trying to stay calm as the phone rings, you wonder what should you say. Hello, she picks up. You respond: Why is my man always calling you? With anger in her voice she replies: Who are you and why do you have my husbands phone, sweetie I don't know what he told you but when I see him it's on.....As you listen to every word, tears start to fall from you're eyes. Drowned by her words, you hang up the phone, thinking to yourself how did my Mr. Right become Mr. Wrong.